My MIL Ruined My Daughter’s Newly-Renovated Playroom with Rotten Eggs – When I Found Out Why, I Had to Teach Her a Lesson
It is never tricky to blend families, but I never thought my own mother-in-law would be a saboteur. She crossed a boundary I didn’t know existed with what she did to my daughter’s playhouse, and I had to draw my own.
The events of that year are too much for me to even comprehend. However, the memories of that day is still fresh in my mind, and Sadie’s tears continue to haunt me, so I must write it down.
Harper is my name. I have a daughter, Sadie, who is six years old, from a previous marriage. I am thirty years old. Colton, who is four years younger than me and the most patient man I’ve ever met, and I got married exactly a year ago.
Only a few close friends and Sadie in her tiny flower girl attire attended our small wedding. I believed that something lovely was about to begin. However, I was unaware that the storm I married into had been subtly building for years.
Elaine, my husband’s mother and my new mother-in-law (MIL), was that storm.
You see, our relationship had never been approved by my MIL. Her fury was simmering. She expressed her dissatisfaction right away in terms that were both nuanced and scathing.
In public, she would address me as “Miss Harper” as though I were a complete stranger.
The aspect that affected me the most was when she would sigh dramatically anytime Sadie was mentioned, always calling her “that child.”
Elaine was preoccupied with keeping her kid bound to her and was domineering and cunning. The age gap between Colton and myself was another obsessive obsession of hers.
At breakfast, she once remarked, “I don’t know how a mother could accept a woman four years older than her son and with a child,” as she stirred her tea as if she were discussing the gossip of the day. She never failed to remind me of how “unacceptable” the age gap is.
She even publicly referred to me as “wrinkled,” despite the fact that she was decades my senior.
“Mom, Harper’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. And Sadie’s part of my family now,” Colton would say in an attempt to protect me.
Elaine’s eyes spoke louder than words could. I realized that I was a threat to her, an intruder, someone who dared to occupy her “rightful” position.
I believed I could disregard everything, but what transpired afterward went too far.
For the most part, our first year of marriage was joyful. Colton loved Sadie, and Sadie loved Colton. They even had a secret handshake, built Lego castles that filled half the living room, and hosted tea parties on the weekends.
I thought our blended family could work when I saw them together.
Then everything changed a few months ago.
Sadie’s playroom had an electrical fire. The devastation was terrible, but fortunately no one was harmed. The room was unlivable, the walls were charred, and her toys were melted. Right away, Colton pledged to rebuild it better than before. I’m referring to new paint, bookcases, a comfy reading area, plush carpet, and more.
“Sadie deserves magic,” he declared while giving her a firm embrace. “We’ll make this room feel like a fairytale.”
And we did!
After scrounging up our savings, we started working. We added a teepee with fairy lights, handmade shelving, a cushioned reading nook, gray-and-white carpet, and lavender paint to the walls. Sadie assisted with choosing everything.
It was her ideal room, and she always smiled when she saw the development! When she saw the last modifications, she was ecstatic!
However, Elaine later learned.
One day, as the finishing touches were being added, my MIL dropped by without warning. She entered through the front door as if she owned the property while I was in the kitchen.
“Oh,” she murmured, glancing at the delivery men putting Sadie’s dollhouse together. “This is where your money’s going now?”
I didn’t answer. She approached the playroom and took a quick look inside.
She mumbled, “New paint, new carpet, custom furniture,” “All this… for a child that isn’t even yours, Colton?”
My husband’s jaw tightened as he entered behind her. “Don’t do this.”
Elaine looked over at him. “You used to take me on trips. Remember last year? Cabo? But now you’ve replaced me with them.”
“She’s my wife,” Colton claimed in a low voice. “And Sadie’s part of my life. You need to accept that.”
Elaine didn’t say anything more, but her eyes spoke loudly enough.
Three days later, when I was running errands, Colton was at work, and Sadie was at piano lessons, another terrible incident occurred in the playroom.
When we initially entered the house after I had picked Sadie up from her lesson, I assumed there was a gas leak. Telling my daughter to wait, I dropped my handbag and hurried down the corridor, following the sour smell.
I stopped cold as the stink led me to the playground, but there was no leak in the kitchen.
spoiled eggs. Everywhere!
I felt sick to my stomach.
Slime was seeping down the walls. There was yellow-gray muck all over the new carpet. Sadie’s toys and plush animals were ruined, and her books were twisted from the liquid. I could have gagged from the stench alone!
I hurried to close the door, hoping Sadie hadn’t approached yet. Five minutes later, though, she did, of course.
She called, “Mommy, what’s that smell?”
I blocked her path and greeted her in the corridor.
“Let’s get some juice, sweetheart,” I said, attempting to look happy throughout.
She could still smell it, though. She wrinkled her nose. “What is it?”
I was powerless to stop her. She opened the door and shoved past me. She folded her small face.
“Mr. Bear…”
I was devastated by the expression in her eyes as she picked up her smashed teddy bear.
She sobbed and whimpered, “Mommy… what happened?!” while I consoled her.
“I… I don’t know, baby.”
When Colton arrived home thirty minutes later, he almost puked!
His voice trembled as he asked, “Who would do this?”
I initially didn’t respond. I then uttered the name that was on both of our minds.
“Elaine.”
He looked at me for a while. “You really think she would—”
“She hates that we spent money on Sadie. She said it, Colton. And she’s the only one who had a key. The side door. Your old key. You never changed it.”
He went pallid. “I forgot.”
We had no evidence. But we were angry and instinctive.
“Luckily, Sadie wasn’t even in the room when it happened,” I said to him. “Thank God, but… look at this. We’re going to have to redo everything.”
That night, we tried to clean it for hours. The scent persisted for weeks even after we cleaned the shelves and walls and disposed of the toys. In the end, we had to borrow money to completely renovate the playroom.
What should have been a happy first makeover had become a nightmare, both financially and emotionally.
One morning, after doing our best to clean the playroom, we drove to Elaine’s house and dropped Sadie off with her babysitter. I was furious. After weeks of waiting for that room to be completed, Sadie found it destroyed by rotting eggs.
I listened to Colton speak.
As soon as Sadie answered the door, he questioned, “Did you vandalize Sadie’s room?”
Elaine’s eyebrows went up. “Excuse me? I didn’t do anything! How dare you accuse me! It’s your wife who wanted to spend another million dollars on her baby’s new room!”
When I said, “We know it was you,” “You’re the only one who had a key to the side door.”
“I don’t need to sneak around like a criminal,” she yelled. “And I would never waste my time on that brat’s room.”
Colton’s tone lifted. “Mom, this is ridiculous! You’re jealous of a six-year-old! That’s what this is! She’s a child!”
Elaine’s expression contorted. “A child?! This isn’t about her! This is about you! You think you can forget your mother? Forget who made you who you are? You think you can replace me, Colton? That girl will never be your family the way I am! She’s a reminder, a thorn in your perfect little life!”
Even though we were shaken and angry, we didn’t have any solid proof that Elaine was the one responsible. Later that night, I recalled the playroom’s pet camera.
Our dog had started acting differently and stopped chewing on Sadie’s toys whenever she wasn’t around, so we hadn’t checked it in weeks. I hoped the recording was still in progress.
I contacted Colton as soon as I saw the reality after seeing the video on my laptop.
Silently, we sat and watched.
Elaine was there! As expected, she entered by the side entrance, slid in about midday, and made her way directly to the playroom carrying a bag. After checking to make sure no one was present, she took out one egg after another and smashed them with a rage I couldn’t understand!
After smearing them with her bare hands, Elaine threw the final one at the wall while laughing quietly.
We sat motionless.
My blood froze!
“She’s sick,” I said in a whisper.
Colton’s hands were shaking. “We need to show her.”
The following day, we invited her over. We wanted to apologize, we told her. We ensured that Sadie wouldn’t be present.
As arrogant as ever, my MIL arrived.
The video was already playing on the television when she entered.
She stopped smiling.
She said in a chilly tone, “You think showing me proof changes anything?” “I did what I had to do! He’s my son, and I will not be ignored! I won’t be cast aside for a child who isn’t even related to me! And if you think you can replace me, Harper, think again!”
“Mom! Enough! She’s innocent! They both are! This is insane! No one is replacing anyone,” Colton said. “But you just lost your place in this family!”
Elaine’s face turned scarlet. “You choose her over me, Colton?! You think I won’t remind you who raised you? Who gave you everything? I am your blood! That child… she’s nothing to you! You’ll see. You’ll regret this. Both of you!”
“You’re not welcome here again,” I responded.
She pivoted and walked away.
Elaine rushed off that night, and Colton and I were silent for a bit. With our hands clasped around lukewarm coffee mugs that neither of us touched, we sat in the living room. The stillness between us was shocked and shaken, not chilly.
Suddenly, everything we believed we were creating felt so flimsy.
With a whisper, “I feel like I failed you,” he said.
I raised my head. “What are you talking about?”
“I should’ve changed the locks. I should’ve said something to her earlier. I thought if I kept the peace, she’d eventually just… move on. But she never did.”
My response was, “She never was going to,” “She doesn’t want peace. She wants control.”
Slowly, he nodded. “She hurt Sadie. That’s unforgivable.”
We went to apply for a loan the following day. We decided not to let Elaine win, even though it wasn’t ideal.
We completely renovated the playroom, replacing all of the broken furniture, repainting it, and refurnishing it. Although Sadie still hesitates anytime she smells eggs somewhere, everything was wonderful again a few weeks later, and her delight returned.
Colton phoned a locksmith two days later. He installed a smart security system with cameras at every entryway and had all the locks updated.
“If she ever tries anything again,” he added, “we’ll know immediately.”
Then there was another twist.
I became aware that I was pregnant a few months later!
Colton felt ecstatic. He told Elaine that she would not be permitted to be close to Sadie, me, or our pregnant kid. Her number was blocked by him.
However, she arrived the week I was due. In the rain, on her knees!
I was astounded to see her reduced to that, desperate and embarrassed.
“Please,” she muttered, trembling and drenched. “I’m sorry. Let me back into your life.”
In the doorway appeared Colton.
“No.”
Then he shut it.
There was a peculiar sense of finality when a gift arrived after the birth of our baby. Two cartons of velvet.
A locket containing a photo of Sadie and Colton was one for her. A silver rattle that had been handed down through Elaine’s family’s generations was in the other.
No message or note.
It was frail, symbolic, and seemed like a small olive branch even if it didn’t change the past.
A year later, Elaine has never again shown up without permission. She hasn’t tried to control Colton or Sadie. At last, our mixed family is secure and content.
Although Sadie is now well, the terrible recollection still haunts her.
And now she has a little flashback when she stops and sniffs the air, smells eggs. I cradle her in my arms and say, “You’re safe. Always.”
It reminds me why I had to stand my position, but it also tears my heart. It occasionally takes severe measures, tough limits, and unwavering resolve to protect her and our new family.