Why Older Women Love Getting It From the Back — But Never Talk About It
It’s the position most older women won’t bring up in polite conversation.
They’ll smile at brunch.
Nod during book club.
Maybe whisper to a trusted friend over wine.
But behind closed doors?
More women over 50 are discovering the pleasure of “getting it from the back” — and they’re not shy about enjoying it.
They’re just not talking about it publicly.
Because even now, in a world of body positivity and freedom, there’s one taboo that still makes women blush:
Wanting more. After 50.
So What’s Really Going On?
For many women, this position — whether in the bedroom or simply resting posture — offers a surprising combination of relief and arousal.
We’re talking about a pose that:
✅ Takes pressure off the knees
✅ Supports the lower back
✅ Allows deeper connection (yes, that kind)
✅ Puts her in a state of surrender and support — without discomfort
But that’s just the physical part.
What older women are quietly admitting is this:
It’s not just about the body.
It’s about how it makes them feel.
“I Never Thought I’d Want That Again…”
Linda, 64, says she avoided intimacy for years due to back pain and stiffness.
Then her partner suggested a new angle — gentle, supportive, with cushions for comfort.
“I felt safe. Strong. Wanted. And… to be honest… I finished faster than I had in years.”
And she’s not alone.
In forums, surveys, and quiet conversations, women are opening up about what this position brings them:
- A sense of release
- The thrill of letting go
- A surprising rediscovery of pleasure in later years
Why They Stay Silent
So if it’s so great… why don’t they talk about it?
Shame.
Stigma.
Fear of being judged.
Because somewhere along the way, society told older women to stop being sensual.
To trade desire for duty.
To stop asking for what they need.
But here’s the truth:
Desire doesn’t disappear. It just gets quieter — until the right person wakes it up.
And this particular position?
It’s waking up a lot more than just stiff joints.